That Whatsapp is a very popular app and one of the most widely used in daily life by most people the world over is well known. People nowadays even use whatsapp for not just personal chats but also for business communication. Besides, whatsapp is also used for networking and by groups of friends (school, college, locality, company etc) to stay in touch.
But just when you thought that people had exhausted all the possible ways in which to use whatsapp, news comes in that a novel use has been found for whatsapp, a use hitherto unimaginable. Whatsapp has proved its versatility by becoming the means of communication for divorcing wives.
To explain the background - muslims in India are governed by their own civil law, which is based on the sharia and is divergent with the otherwise progressive laws enacted in India in recent years. These muslim civil laws not only treat women as second class members of the society but also deny women many rights which are considered basic in most other communities/ religions.
One of these glaring instances of discrimination and regression is the use of the triple talaq, whereunder a muslim man can divorce his wife, without any reason whatsoever or having to explain his decision and completely free from any liability to pay alimony or other form of maintenance - by just uttering the word 'talaq' 3 times.
That is it. Nothing else needed. When you are tired of your wife, you just say talaq thrice and you can then throw her out of your house, wash your hands of all responsibility for her and are free to add to your quota of wives.
To add to the injustice and unreasonableness of it all, this only works for men i.e women cannot divorce their husbands similarly.
A well educated and fairly well to do NRI youth from Kerala divorced his wife of 10 days by using whatsapp without even bothering to come down to India. Talk of convenient divorces and transcending the barriers of physical presence, geographical distances and legal hurdles - all through the wonders of modern technology.
Link - http://indianexpress.com/article/india/india-news-india/kerala-nri-man-sends-talaq-shocker-to-wife-on-whatsapp/
I have enumerated below some of the numerous points that are disturbing and unjust about this case:
1. What would you say of a religion which tramples upon women's rights in this way?
2. In a democratic country, where women are accorded equal rights, why is it that the compulsions of minority appeasement politics have allowed the existence of regressive laws which treat women like second class persons who are clearly discriminated against and considered secondary to the men from that religion?
3. What kind of mindset is prevalent amongst the men of this religion, who inspite of being educated, take advantage of such regressive laws to satisfy their carnal lust and destroy the lives of women in this manner?
4. The man also took a hefty dowry, as is the common norm. Minority religious and political leaders have been silent on this aspect as well.
5. The man compared his wife to an apple, saying that after eating an apply, why would a man east the same fruit everyday? How regressive, perverted and sadistic is this? This also highlights the fact that such regressive religious practices make women not only secondary to men, they also drive an attitude where women are looked only as sex objects (compared to fruits which a man like a variety of).
Most disheartening has been the reaction of our media and the common hindus who have completely ignored this issues, instead of supporting the introduction of a common civil code.
I hope the BJP takes up the issue of common civil code for the betterment of women from all sections of the society and to ensure that women from all religions are accorded minimum rights in front of the law.
But just when you thought that people had exhausted all the possible ways in which to use whatsapp, news comes in that a novel use has been found for whatsapp, a use hitherto unimaginable. Whatsapp has proved its versatility by becoming the means of communication for divorcing wives.
To explain the background - muslims in India are governed by their own civil law, which is based on the sharia and is divergent with the otherwise progressive laws enacted in India in recent years. These muslim civil laws not only treat women as second class members of the society but also deny women many rights which are considered basic in most other communities/ religions.
One of these glaring instances of discrimination and regression is the use of the triple talaq, whereunder a muslim man can divorce his wife, without any reason whatsoever or having to explain his decision and completely free from any liability to pay alimony or other form of maintenance - by just uttering the word 'talaq' 3 times.
That is it. Nothing else needed. When you are tired of your wife, you just say talaq thrice and you can then throw her out of your house, wash your hands of all responsibility for her and are free to add to your quota of wives.
To add to the injustice and unreasonableness of it all, this only works for men i.e women cannot divorce their husbands similarly.
A well educated and fairly well to do NRI youth from Kerala divorced his wife of 10 days by using whatsapp without even bothering to come down to India. Talk of convenient divorces and transcending the barriers of physical presence, geographical distances and legal hurdles - all through the wonders of modern technology.
Link - http://indianexpress.com/article/india/india-news-india/kerala-nri-man-sends-talaq-shocker-to-wife-on-whatsapp/
I have enumerated below some of the numerous points that are disturbing and unjust about this case:
1. What would you say of a religion which tramples upon women's rights in this way?
2. In a democratic country, where women are accorded equal rights, why is it that the compulsions of minority appeasement politics have allowed the existence of regressive laws which treat women like second class persons who are clearly discriminated against and considered secondary to the men from that religion?
3. What kind of mindset is prevalent amongst the men of this religion, who inspite of being educated, take advantage of such regressive laws to satisfy their carnal lust and destroy the lives of women in this manner?
4. The man also took a hefty dowry, as is the common norm. Minority religious and political leaders have been silent on this aspect as well.
5. The man compared his wife to an apple, saying that after eating an apply, why would a man east the same fruit everyday? How regressive, perverted and sadistic is this? This also highlights the fact that such regressive religious practices make women not only secondary to men, they also drive an attitude where women are looked only as sex objects (compared to fruits which a man like a variety of).
Most disheartening has been the reaction of our media and the common hindus who have completely ignored this issues, instead of supporting the introduction of a common civil code.
I hope the BJP takes up the issue of common civil code for the betterment of women from all sections of the society and to ensure that women from all religions are accorded minimum rights in front of the law.